BDSM Checklist

This form lets you fill out a BDSM checklist and send it to someone via email. This will also send an encoded form of the checklist that can be used to perform comparisons at our comparison page. You can do this anonymously, or you can choose to include your email address so they can contact you.

Personal details Nickname:
Gender (e.g. male, female, M/f trans, etc):
Sexual orientation (e.g. straight, gay, bi):
Role preference (e.g. top, bottom, Dominant, submissive, switch):
Looking for (e.g. casual play, long-term relationship, etc):

In the following table, the Exp? field gives your level of experience. CPO should be checked if you engage in the activity with Committed Partners Only.

Bondage and Suspension

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Blindfolds
Bondage (light)
Bondage (heavy)
Immobilisation
Bondage (multi-day)
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Leather restraints
Chains
Ropes
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Rope body harness
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
Harnesses (leather)
Harnesses (rope)
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Manacles & Irons
Gags (cloth)
Gags (rubber)
Gags (tape)
Gags (phallic)
Gags (ring)
Gags (ball)
Mouth bits
Full head hoods
Mummification/saran wrapping
Straight jackets
Sleepsacks
Spreader bars
Cages (locked inside of)
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Stocks
Suspension (upright)
Suspension (horizontal)
Suspension (inverted)
Suspension (hooks)

Impact/Percussion

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Spanking
Flogging
Single-tail whips
Canes
Belts
Leather straps
Riding crops
Hairbrushes
Wooden paddles
Breast slapping
Breast whipping
Pussy/cock whipping
Slapping/Punching (back, buttocks, chest)
Strapping (full body beating)
Hair pulling
Face slapping

Sexual Activity

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Vaginal sex
Oral sex
Swallowing semen
Hand jobs
Anal sex
Anal plugs (small)
Anal plugs (large)
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Anal beads
Figging/radishing
Vaginal dildo
Vibrator on genitals
Dilation
Masturbation
Fisting (vaginal)
Fisting (anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Speculums (anal)
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Double penetration (oral and vaginal)
Double penetration (oral and anal)
Double penetration (vaginal and anal)
Triple penetration
Forced homosexuality
Forced heterosexuality
Forced masturbation
Phone sex (with partner)
Phone sex (with others)
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Group Sex
Outdoor sex
Orgasm control
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Swapping (with one other couple)
Swinging (multiple couples)
Threesomes (two male, one female)
Threesomes (one male, two females)
Threesomes (same sex)

Sensation Play

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Abrasion
Scratching
Biting
Tickling
Kissing
Violet wand
Tens units
Zapping (e.g. elecric fly swatter)
Ice cubes
Wax Play
Cupping
Fire cupping
Fire play
Drumming
Knife Play
Clothespins
Sensory deprivation
Hot oils (on genitals)

Cutting/Piercing/Body Modification

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Cutting
Branding
Scarification
Tattooing
Injections
Piercing (temporary, play pierce)
Piercing (permanent)
Catheterization

Breath Play

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Asphyxiation
Breath control
Choking

Humiliation

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Teasing
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Verbal humiliation
Spitting
Washing mouth out with soap
Objectification (art, furniture...)
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (head hair)
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Outdoor scenes
Public exposure

Body Part Torture

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Cock and Ball torture (male)
Gates of Hell (male)
Ball stretchers
Ball crushers
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture)
Nipple clips
Nipple weights
Nipple suction cups
Clit clips

Fetishes

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Feet
Boots
High heels
Chastity devices
Corsets
Masks
Crossdressing
Gender-bending
Gas masks
Feathers
Fabrics
Lingerie
Lace
Nylon
Silk
Mirrors
Leather clothing
Rubber/latex/PVC clothing
Spandex clothing
Panties
Pantyhose
Uniforms
Pregnancy
Lactation
Food

General Roleplaying

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Fear play
Fantasy abandonment
Kidnapping
Interrogation
Sleep deprivation
Rape
Gang bang
Whore play
Initiation rites
Religious scenes
Medical scenes
Prison scenes
Schoolroom scenes
Race play
Fantasy scenarios (pirates, aliens, vampires, bikers...)
Wrestling
Hypnotism
Mind Control
Feminization
Masculinization

Service and Restrictive Behaviour

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Following orders
Forced servitude
Restrictive rules on behaviour
Eye contact restrictions
Speech restrictions (when, what, to whom)
Washroom restrictions
Kneeling
Crawling
Begging
Standing in corner
Learned postures
Rituals
New names
Lectures for misbehaviour
Physical examinations
Forced exercise
Forced dressing
Chosen clothes
Chosen food
Being fed
Wearing symbolic jewellery
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Leashes
Chauffeuring
Housework
Manicures
Massage
Licking (non-sexual)
Serving
Serving as a maid
Serving as waitress/waiter
Serving other doms (supervised)
Serving other doms (unsupervised)
Including others
Competitions (with other Subs)
Harems
Supplying new partners
Given away to another Dom (for play)
Given away to another Dom (for training)
Given away to another Dom (permanent)
Consensual non-consent

Voyeurism/Exhibitionism

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Forced nudity (private)
Forced nudity (around others)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Modelling for erotic photos
Video (watching others)
Video (recordings of you)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)

Animal Roleplay

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Puppy play
Pony play
Kitty play
Furry play
Bestiality

Age Roleplay

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Daddy play
Mommy play
Play with other charges
Childhood Activities (fingerpainting, blocks, etc)
Teenager play
Infantilism (Adult baby, diaper lover)
Elderly play

Bodily Fluids and Functions

ActivityGivingReceivingComments
Exp?Level of InterestCPOExp?Level of InterestCPO
Watersports/golden showers
Swallowing urine
Enemas
Brown showers (scat)
Serving as toilet
Blood
Menstruation
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